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Destination wedding services in ItalyOne vision,three scales

I do not offer three services. I offer one project, held from the first sketch to the last hour, which is why I take it on in full.

What changes between the three is not the level of care. It is the shape of the celebration: how many days, how many people, and how much of Italy you want your guests to see.

None of them is a fixed package: each is a starting structure, shaped around you.

Candlelit bar in a frescoed hall at Villa Gaia Gandini
Villa Gaia Gandini
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Concierge

The largest scale and the one where your guests become part of the project.

When two hundred people travel to a country they do not know, the celebration begins long before the ceremony: at the airport, at the hotel desk. Concierge means that all of this is designed too, and that none of it ever reaches you.

“On the morning of the wedding, no one asks you a question.”

Ideal forMulti-day celebrations with guests arriving from abroad.

Also includesRehearsal dinner, welcome party and farewell brunch · Excursions and activities between the event days · Transfers across all event days · A dedicated concierge for your guests, from arrival to departure

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Weekend

Three days, one place, everyone together.

Your guests arrive on Friday and leave on Sunday having spent three days with you, instead of four hours: a dinner the night before, the wedding itself, a long farewell breakfast and, in between, the hours people actually remember afterwards.

Ideal forCelebrations built around a single place, with a guest list that can move as one group.

Also includesRehearsal dinner and farewell brunch · Excursions and activities between the event days · Transfers across all event days

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Elopement

The smallest scale and the least forgiving.

With ten people in the room, there is nowhere for a detail to hide. An intimate wedding needs more design, not less.

I guide you through the part that makes marrying in Italy complicated from abroad: documents, civil and religious requirements, and the timing of each.

Ideal forCelebrations of up to ten guests.

Also includesTransfers for the event

Every scale includes

  • 01Initial consultation and detailed design questionnaire
  • 02Full event concept and design direction
  • 03Renderings, material samples and floral mock-ups, in your hands before anything is built
  • 04Venue scouting and management
  • 05End-to-end planning and coordination
  • 06Supplier selection, negotiation and contract management, at each supplier’s own price
  • 07Permits and authorizations for the venue and the event
  • 08Rituals, traditions and dietary requirements planned from the first conversation
  • 09Budget structure and ongoing optimization
  • 10A complete Plan B: a second full project, designed and costed alongside the first
  • 11Online folder with every supplier contract and quote
  • 12On-site direction, from the first delivery to the last guest

Meetings, calls and visits included in my fee

  • Three meetings in person
  • Fifteen video calls
  • Two site visits, with or without you
  • One attendance at the menu tasting
  • On-site direction across all event days
  • Unlimited emails, answered within the same working day

The elopement scale has its own set: two meetings in person, eight video calls, one site visit.

Nothing is left to imagination alone

My moodboards are not suggestions: they are executive documents, shared with every supplier and followed to the letter.

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What your guests will never see

Sightlines that place the ceremony where it can be seen from every seat. A flow of movement that lets three hundred people find their table without being told twice. Light that shifts with the hour instead of being switched on.

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What you will see, long before the day

Renderings, material samples and floral mock-ups put the celebration in your hands while it still exists only on paper, so that what you imagine and what you live are the same thing.

Moodboard: palette, flowers and materials for a lakeside wedding
Zoning plan of the venue
Moodboard: red and white floral design

Road map

From the first conversation to the last hour. Most projects run twelve to eighteen months.

“Timings shift with the season and the venue. The shape does not.”

  1. The first weeks

    Vision

    How you want the days to feel, and how you want to work: whether you would rather choose every detail with me, or hand the vision over and see it completed. Both are fine.

  2. Month one

    The framework

    A real budget and a real calendar. Not a range, but a document that says what each part will cost and by when each decision has to be taken.

  3. Months two to five

    The design

    The identity of the event: palette, materials, scenography, the rhythm of the days. Nothing is booked before this exists.

  4. Months four to eight

    The team

    Suppliers chosen for their ability to interpret this project: florists, caterers, photographers, artisans. I negotiate and hold the contracts; you pay each directly at their own price.

  5. Months six to ten

    Prototyping

    Renderings, material samples, floral mock-ups. You see the celebration while it can still be changed.

  6. The final months

    Production

    Procurement, permits, transport, timings to the quarter hour, and a second complete project, ready in case the sky turns.

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    The days

    My team and I are on site from the first delivery to the last guest. You have nothing to hold.

0%Commission from suppliers
How I am paid

Paid by you, and only by you.

Many planners in Italy are also paid by the suppliers they recommend, through a commission of 10 to 20 percent added to each quote. I am not.

You receive every supplier’s original quote at their own price and pay them directly. I accept no commission and no markup of any kind, which is precisely why I can tell you when something is not worth what it costs.

My fee has two parts, because my work has two parts

i.

The design fee

Fixed, and the same for every project: the design work is the same for fifty guests or for three hundred.

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The project fee

A percentage of the total budget, for negotiation, contracts, logistics and my presence on every event day. It scales, because complexity does.

A percentage alone would make my interest grow with your spending. The fixed part is the part of my fee that does not care how much you spend.

There are no fixed packages, because there are no fixed weddings.

After our first call: a proposal built around your scope, then contract and date.

Who I work best with

Eight full-planning projects a year is a small number. Choosing well matters on both sides. This is here so that we both know, early, whether we are right for each other.

This is usually true of them

  • They want a project, not a service.A point of view is a relief, not an imposition.
  • They already know what good looks like.I do not have to convince them, only build it.
  • How the days feel matters more than how they photograph.The photographs follow.
  • They are bringing their families with them.Forty to three hundred people, two or three days, a country most of them have never seen.
  • They want one person answerable.Not a coordinator on the day, not a shared inbox.
  • They decide with me, then let the work happen.
  • Budget is a design tool.Fewer things, properly.

I am probably not the right person if

  • You are choosing based on price.I am not the cheapest option for getting married in Italy.
  • You are only looking for coordination on the day of the wedding.I offer either a full service or nothing at all.
  • You want a wedding that you have already seen somewhere else.I do not repeat myself or copy others.
  • Your date falls during peak season, and you have not secured your venue yet.

“Choosing well matters more than choosing me.”

The questions everyone asks me

Answered here as I would answer them on a call.

Vision and design

01How will you make sure the wedding looks like us, and not like your previous weddings?

It starts with a long conversation and a detailed questionnaire, not only about what you like, but about how you want your guests to feel when they walk in. From that, I write the design brief: palette, materials, scenography, the rhythm of each day. Nothing I have designed before is reused, which is also why I take on only eight full-planning projects a year.

02Do you only work full-service?

Yes. Destination weddings are logistically complex, and holding the entire lifecycle, first concept, venue scouting to suppliers, and technical coordination on the day, is what allows a design to survive execution. Taking on half a project would mean promising a result I no longer control.

03Will we see the design before the wedding day?

Always, and in your hands rather than on a screen: renderings, material samples and floral mock-ups, well before anything is built.

Logistics and timing

04How far in advance should we start?

Twelve to eighteen months. Italy's finest venues and suppliers are booked further ahead than most couples expect: for a weekend in high season, eighteen months is not caution, it is arithmetic. Shorter timelines are sometimes possible, and I will tell you honestly whether yours is one of them.

05How many projects do you take on?

No more than eight a year, and never more than one in a weekend. It is a deliberate limit on what I can earn, and it is what allows me to answer the phone on the days that matter.

06Will you be there on the wedding day?

Yes. I direct every phase myself, from the first delivery to the last guest, with my team on set-ups, suppliers, and timing. You will not meet me at the signature and someone else at the altar.

07How will we work together from abroad?

Scheduled video calls for project reviews, WhatsApp for quick decisions and images, and email for contracts and documents. I reply within the same working day, and when something depends on an Italian supplier's office hours, I am the one waiting for them to open, not you.

08What if we cannot come to Italy before the wedding?

Then you will see it through me. Some of my couples have never visited the venue before their arrival, so I provide renderings, video walkthroughs from site visits, material samples sent to you, and my own honest opinion on every option. It requires more trust, and I have earned it before: Molly and Ari married across three venues in Sicily, even though I had seen none of them.

Suppliers and budget

09Do you handle supplier contracts and payments?

I negotiate and hold every contract on your behalf. You pay each supplier directly, at their own price: no supplier payment passes through me, and I take no margin on anything. Your control over costs stays absolute, and my judgment stays free.

10Can we bring our own suppliers?

Yes. I have a network built over twenty-five years and continuously reassessed, but I am glad to work with people you already love. Suppliers from outside my network communicate directly with you rather than with my studio, and keeping them aligned with the design, the timings and the run of show takes real hours. Those hours are handled by a dedicated member of my team and quoted separately. Everything is agreed with you before confirmation, and nothing appears later.

When things go wrong

11What is your Plan B if the weather turns?

I never design without one. Plan B is not a fallback: it is a second complete project, same atmosphere, same elegance, drawn and costed alongside the first, ready the moment the sky changes. It is also why I steer large celebrations toward venues whose interiors are worth using.

12How do you handle Italian bureaucracy and language?

I map all of it for you and deal with everyone on the Italian side. The documents that must be issued in your name are requested by you, and I tell you precisely how and when.

13Has anything ever gone wrong?

Constantly, and quickly. I have replaced an entire set of non-compliant furniture one hour before the doors opened, and rebuilt a timeline on the spot for a bride caught in traffic. Both celebrations ran as though nothing had happened, which is the only measure that counts.

Investment

14Why is your fee structured this way?

Like an architecture studio, what I sell is design and responsibility, not hours. A fee structured this way keeps my time entirely focused on finding the best solution for you and entirely outside any supplier's commercial logic.

15Is there a minimum budget you work with?

No. The design fee is the same for every project priced on the two-part structure, because the design work is the same. What decides whether I am the right person for you is not the size of the celebration but its ambition: an intimate wedding designed with care can ask more of me than a large one that runs itself.

16Why two parts instead of one?

Because a percentage alone would make my interest grow with your spending. The fixed part is the part of my fee that does not care how much you spend.

Other

17Can you produce a ceremony from our own culture or religion?

Yes, any faith, and any tradition. I have built a Japanese-Italian celebration in Rome, with the bride dressed in a kimono by her mother's friends before the ceremony, and worked with Lebanese, Danish, and North American families in the same room, at a wedding that brought together thirty-five nationalities. Rituals shape the timeline, the kitchen, and the room, so I need to know them from the first conversation. Dietary requirements (kosher, halal, vegetarian, allergies) are planned with the caterer from the outset. Only certain religious ceremonies carry civil effect under Italian law: for all the others, the celebration is paired with a civil ceremony, in Italy or at home. I will tell you at the start which case you are in.

18What languages do you work in?

Italian and English throughout, in writing and on calls. For any other language, I arrange professional interpreters for the planning conversations, if you prefer, and for the event days if your guests would be more comfortable. It has never been an obstacle: I have worked with families who shared no common language.

19What happens if we have to postpone?

We find a new date together, and quickly: with venues and suppliers, speed is what preserves your options. My fee transfers to the new date in full; you do not pay me twice for the same wedding. Every supplier has its own terms: I renegotiate each one personally and tell you in writing what is recoverable and what is lost before you decide anything. Postponements happen. They are handled, not survived.

20Do we need to provide anything for you and your team on site?

Accommodation, when the venue or the distance requires an overnight stay, and meals for the design team on the event days. The travel and meals of the coordinators and runners are already included in their daily rate, so they never appear twice. Everything is agreed and costed in advance, and appears in your budget from the beginning, never as a surprise at the end.

There is only one next step

Before I prepare anything for you, I would like to talk.

I accept no more than eight full-planning projects a year, so dates close early.